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Does it drive you crazy that the guy you’re seeing watches endless hours of sports
commentary, hogs the remote, or ‘fixes’ your problems when all you want him to do is
listen?
If you answered “YES” to ANY of these questions, you’ve come to the
right place!
So... why is it so darn HARD to communicate with MEN?
I get it, believe me. As women, we tend to be naturally in tune with our emotions, and being
great communicators is our birthright…
But trying to communicate how you feel to a man you love, or trying to
get HIM to open up to you, can feel like you are negotiating a minefield.
It doesn’t matter if it’s a man you’ve just met, or a man you’ve been married to for 15 years…
you can STILL have painful, awkward, and frustrating misunderstandings…
So, why is this?
It’s not that men aren’t feeling all those same emotions as you are. In fact, from my experience
I can tell you that most men are much more sensitive than they like to let on…
But, I guess the best way to describe it is that men see (and hear) the world through a
different lens…
While we tend to use a lot of emotional expression and detail, men are very physical, visual,
and straight to the point in their communication…
And when it comes to expressing how they feel, men often do this WITHOUT even speaking
out loud… with little touches and gestures that are all part of their love language (you just
need to know how to spot it)…
And that’s why, when men get bombarded with emotional language, they can suddenly go
into ‘defense mode’… because they just don’t know how to PROCESS it.
But, here’s the thing…
If you can unlock a man’s ‘alpha code’, and communicate with him in a
way that HE can understand and respond to…
You will be able to connect with him in ways you have never experienced
before (not JUST emotionally, but physically and sexually, too)…
(Trust me, there is nothing more INCREDIBLE than feeling this level of
connection with the man you love)…