Page 10 - Say This To Men (Marni Kinrys) : Flip It & Read It

And I realized that, deep down, men want the same things women do - to feel heard,
understood and appreciated…

Gradually, I started to understand the special, unique language that MEN use

to communicate their love and attraction, which I dubbed the ‘alpha code’…

Including the unique things that men NEED to
hear from a woman to feel wanted and loved by
her…

As a Wing Girl, I never thought that I would be the one
taking on advice, BUT…

Being able to see things from a guy’s perspective was
now making me think about my OWN relationship…

And I realized that at home, I wasn’t saying (or doing)
enough of the things my husband NEEDED to hear

from me to feel appreciated and loved by me as a
MAN...

Sure, we had a good marriage, but now I could understand WHY he sometimes
seemed moody and withdrawn, out of the blue…

…Because I wasn’t tuning in and communicating with him in HIS love

language…

But now, that’s all changed…

Now, I make SURE to remind him of how amazing he is every day… by showing him my love in
a very special way that he LOVES (I call it my ‘Sensual Seductress’ method)…

Now, I feel comfortable bringing up any relationship issues, because I know exactly how to
lower my husband’s defenses (using something I call my ‘Disagreement Diffuser’)...

And now, whenever I share a problem with him, I use my ‘Mr Supportive’ phrases to show
him that he IS helping me fix the problem, just by giving me his support (rather than me
getting mad when he used to try and ‘fix’ everything for me)…

And the best part is, I discovered that once you start communicating with
your man in the way that HE responds to, this produces an automatic
response in the way HE communicates with you…

I have seriously never felt more loved, appreciated, and understood by my husband… and it is
all because of the amazing insights I have learned as a Wing Girl.

So, all this got me thinking… I was helping so many men to find love and

fulfilment, but…